Posts by LoisLane looking for Superman

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Anyone still "in" that is feeling physically sick??

by lostinnj83 in

i really think that staying "in" just for family and friends is doing a number on my health.

i am currently in therapy for the mental part of all of this but i am phsyically sick every time i have to get ready to go to the meeting or service.

i get heart palpitations as well.

LoisLane looking for Superman

LostInNJ83

I am so glad you are posting. If anyone could use Friends, comfort, some straight talk with good direction, you do.

List the Positives:

You are 30 years old.

You have a good job.

You know TTATT.

List the Negatives:

Married to a JW man, who is not your soul mate.

At the age to start a family, but you don't want to with this man

Anything to do with The Tryth(tm) makes you sick.

On your thread "Newbie Again (Kinds Sorta)", jgnat posted, "Thank him (your husband) for the effort he has put in the marriage and let him go."

We hear you LostInNj83.

We are here to give you support.

We hear that you are at a cross-roads in your life.

Keep posting, even if is the same subject, same subject, yes, same subject, until it finally comes to a head, in your mind, with what is good for you, what you can handle, what joys and problems you feel comfortable, enduring or doing a 180, and starting over with a clean slate.

You can have 60 more joyous, happy, fulfilling years to look forward to. Figure how to make that happiness, happen, for you, not your husband , not Jehovah, (God can figure things out for himself) not your Mother, she made her way, now you get to make yours.

It is your Life.

Wishing you only happiness.

Just Lois

Remember, we know you are in crisis mode. Keep posting!

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

NeverKnew>>>>>You have done so well since you divorced your husband.

Yes. You posted on my thread, in the private section, "If your Husband Was an Elder, What Was His Name For You?"

When your husband beat you up, your neighbors called 911 for you.

It is really encouraging that you are on JW.net, and sharing your life, thoughts and help, with others.

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Aunt Fancy,

Thank you for your response.

I am fine, I am happy. I am free!

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

LozHasLeft,

>>>Whoa, Girl! He was trying to murder you.

As it happened there were people both in the window of a house and some outside it who saw the whole thing and called the police.

>>>Thank goodness, for normal thinking, caring people.

Even with these 5 witnesses, he convinced the elders that I was making it up and faking my bruised face.

>>>He convinced them, or the BOE, couldn't be bothered?

I separated and refused the elders advice to return.

>>>Thank goodness Loz.

He faded out of TT and blamed me.

>>>Of course. Psychopaths always do.

It took around 7 months for the CPS to get him to court, I was called to be a witness with the other 5.

>>> Yay for those good, upstanding citizens, not to be afraid to help you.

I was disciplined for agreeing to go ahead with it,

>>>What? Do those Elders not think God is watching them? (I would try to reason with my husband. Did he not realize God was listening? God was watching? Nothing worked. Then I said, Bro Franz is watching you. Don't you think he is ashamed of your actions? My ex is a psychopath. They do not answer to anyone.) I know all the BOE's around the world, are not psychopaths, but they obey The Watch Tower Society. Thus begs the question: Is The Watch Tower Society's 8 Pope-ettes, psychopaths?

then the elders said that because the 5 witnessess were worldly, their evidence didn't stand up in the eyes of the WTBS.

>>>I know this is their stand. It is wrong on every level. The Elders Secret Hand book … be sure you guys cover over your own sins and your families sins and your friends sins, and remember to keep your mouth shut, and when it comes to police stuff and legal documents and stuff, and stuff like that stuff , don't ask don't tell, that way, when the CO or the DO or the CO and the DO come, we can say, no nothing bad happening here, Bueller…. . Bueller…..

Finally, a couple of days before the trial he pleaded guilty. I took the documents to the elders to prove it.

They didn't acknowledge or apologise and he continued to fade freely.

>>>I am so sorry Loz, you went through such a horrifying event. How are you doing now?

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Band>>>>>"The sexual aspects are important because it is obvious to anyone that the genitals of men and women are different. Women need more arousal. God created us this way according to JW belief".

You cannot make your husband share an orgasm, if he does not want to.

You cannot make your husband participate in foreplay, if he does not want to.

You cannot make your husband "wait" for you, especially if his whole game plan was not about you.

You cannot make your husband understand about "love" if it is not in him.

You cannot force your husband to kiss you. If he kisses you like he would kiss his mother, he is not interested in learning.

If he kisses you on the lips, then wipes said lips after, it could be that he does not like you, does not love you and maybe actually hates women.

If he uses you like a hole in the mattress...

I remember a worldly woman, Fran, that I worked with, long ago, telling me she had a new boyfriend and they were enjoying, "getting to know each other". Her comment to me was sex was more important in a relationship than a pair of shoes, and you try the shoes on first, before you buy, don't you? I thought her thinking was reasonable, but with a Watch Tower conscience, I personally, refrained. I did not want to grieve Jehovah's spirit.

The JW/Taliban rules for an Elder/Mullah were made for the man, not the woman.

Just Lois

PS. This Thread is important.

This particular post/rant was for me, getting garbage off of my soul. I am truly sorry if it has offended anyone.

PSS. My belief now, is all adults, must try on their shoes first, before they buy. This is very important!

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Mum>>>>>"Apparently the smartest woman is inferior to the most ignorant man". lol

Sounds like The Watch Tower Society and The Taliban think alike. A$$holes.

SandraC...It's all about me :-) You go Girl!

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Jgnat >>>>>I always appreciate your views as an intelligent, principled, balanced, Christian, not a JW, but who is supportive of her husband and his religious choice.

This list is abuse.

The Watch Tower Society encourages enforcing this list.

A man, no matter what religion, will listen to his smart wife...if he is smart.

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Gma Tired2>>>>>Sounds like there is a lot of love in your home. I am glad.

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

Pickler>>>>>You are funny! (At my house what I hear coming from the bedroom is my cat snoring. lol)

I too am so happy you did not marry into The Truth(tm). You were too smart Girl! The Watch Tower Society did not get you!

Just Lois

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So Your Husband Is Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness

by LoisLane looking for Superman in

i want to share with you, things your husband can demand from you, because, well he is the man and you are not.

i don't know if you have read about jw's sex lives and what is allowed and isn't.. no oral for anybody.

no masturbation for anybody.

LoisLane looking for Superman

FinallyAwake>>>>>Your husband JustRon, sounds like a Sweetheart. Would be fun to meet you sometime.

Just Lois